If I could tell you 3 things you can begin to do right now that will turn you into an awesome communicator would you be interested? Seriously, back away from your smart phone and listen up, this will revolutionize your relationships.
These tips are so simple you may look at the and go, “no way, that's too simple”. But I promise you, do this and it will literally change your relationships for the better.
#1 Talk less - Yes! Shut up, stop your mouth from moving and trust me.
#2 Listen more - your mouth has stopped now your ears need to work. When you are not talking you are free to do something very powerful- Listen. You will be amazed at what you learn about the person you are communicating with
#3 Stop Judging – turn off the judgmental radar we are all blessed with and leave it off. Judgment is when you think you need to tell someone they made a mistake, or how to improve, or why they need to be better. NO! This separates you from who you are communicating with.
Now this sounds too simple doesn't it, but please trust me and have a go. This will revolutionise your relationships, prove me wrong, I dare you :)
If you are a keen bean you can take our online Communication DNA course right now.
The online Communication DNA course will allow you to begin to understand other key people in your world.. For a deeper understanding you can check out our next level course to better understand others and to close the Communication Gap check out our next level course "Becoming an Enlightened Communicator"
We have an online Communication coaching course that will help you to understand and Harness your strengths as a Communicator. This course will help you to understand your strengths, your needs, your challenges, your stress response, and what to do about it to improve your communication.
Until next time, Care, Connect and be a Courageous Communicator
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